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• The Learning Leader Show With Ryan Hawk Episode #304: Laura Gassner Otting - How To Carve Your Own Path Full show notes can be found at www.LearningLeader.com The Learning Leader Show "It starts young.  We have a world where we are given an identity. We need to think, 'is that really what I want?" Show[...]

The Learning Leader Show With Ryan Hawk

Episode #304: Laura Gassner Otting – How To Carve Your Own Path

Full show notes can be found at www.LearningLeader.com

The Learning Leader Show

“It starts young.  We have a world where we are given an identity. We need to think, ‘is that really what I want?”

Show Notes:

• Sustaining excellence:
  • Live on the edge of your incompetence — “The more you talk, the less you listen.”  Need to be asking questions and listening.
  • Tenacity, grit
  • Put yourself in uncomfortable situations
• Be in a position to learn something new from your failures… “That is delightful.”
• “Looking into someone and seeing their greatness.”
• Running coach — “Calm, confident, reflect back to the dream  Compete.
• Issues with execution… Why? “We get stuck chasing someone else’s dream.”
• How do we know? “It starts young.  We have a world where we are given an identity. We need to think, ‘is that really what I want?”
• The four parts of consonace:
  • Calling — It’s bigger than you
  • Connection – The work actually matters
  • Contribution – It contributes to the life you actually want
  • Control – How much do I have?
• “My mother told me I needed to be a lawyer.” — “I wanted to run for office.”
• How did Laura end up in the Clinton Whitehouse?
• “I learned how to show up for others… And be dedicated to excellence”
• “I was a great leader, but a terrible manager.”  You need to be self-aware
• Advice to new managers:
  • “People want feedback.  Ask them if that project reflected their understanding of the assignment or their ability?”
• Laura’s TEDx Talk:
  • Stop asking, ‘how can I help?’
  • Think, ‘what needs to happen?’
• Her fight with Ann Coulter
• Must be willing to change your mind as a leader — “Our stories are our connections.”
• Becoming an athlete — Laura ran the first mile of her life nine years ago.  Now, she’s a competitive rower.  And she ran in the Boston marathon.
• Confidence is built through doing.  Continue to push the boundaries of our own competence.
• Tel Aviv:
  • Hunger
  • Weight
  • Tenacity
  • Speed
  • Grit/Heart
• Don’t get in the comparison trap with other people’s highlight reels on social media
• Advice she received that’s been helpful — “You’re just not that important”
• Study — Team of Rivals — About Lincoln
• Use the “Get To Know You Document“
• Why joining The Learning Leader Circle is a good idea