Anthony Scaramucci served as the White House Director of Communications for President Donald Trump from July 21 to July 31, 2017. He was at Harvard Law School with President Barack Obama and First Lady Michelle Obama. He’s the founder and managing partner of SkyBridge Capital. And he’s the founder and Chairman of the SALT conference. 

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  • What he learned from playing quarterback: Anticipation, flexibility, fluidity.
  • Leadership through service: True leadership isn’t about personal glory but about making others better and helping them succeed in their roles. Derek Jeter exemplified this by never caring about personal statistics, only team success. “If you’re on the team, it’s not about me, right? It’s about you. How am I gonna make you better? Or how am I gonna make you feel good about your role? How am I gonna get you to think that I’m here to help you?”
  • Flexibility and decision-making under pressure: Football taught Scaramucci the importance of reading situations quickly and making audibles at the line of scrimmage – skills that translate directly to business and life leadership. “You can’t just say, okay, here’s the game plan, right? Because that’s what Mike Tyson says, right? You have the plan until you get punched in the face, or all battle plans go by the wayside with contact with the enemy.”
  • Resilience through adversity: Getting “your ass kicked” early in life builds the resilience needed for future challenges in business and politics. Early defeats teach you how to bounce back from failure. “That’s called resilience, right? You gotta get over that… That’s how you gotta get your ass kicked. Here I was… and I just remember feeling so puny… So how you gotta get over that.”
  • The confidence battle starts within: The first fight in life is with yourself – believing you’re good enough and worthy to compete. Henry Ford’s principle applies: “If you think you can or you can’t, you are right.” “The first fight is with yourself. Am I good enough? Am I worthy? Can I get to the game? Can I believe in myself enough so that I’m standing next to someone else who believes in themselves that I compete?”
  • Accountability in relationships: When Scaramucci’s marriage was in crisis, taking full accountability for his mistakes rather than deflecting blame was crucial to rebuilding the relationship. “I owe my wife Deirdre, a debt of gratitude for actually really loving me because I was off the rails on a few things… she’s like, Hey, I’m not having this, so if you love me, get your shit together.”
  • Life coaching vs. therapy approach: Life coaching focuses on progression and future action (“What are we doing today to be better?”) rather than regression into past issues.
    • “I feel that therapy is a regression. Life coaching is a progression… forget about the past. What the hell are you gonna do? What are we doing today to make yourself a better person?”
  • Forgiveness as liberation: Choosing to forgive both others and yourself removes the “millstone of regret” that weighs you down and prevents forward progress. “I can take that millstone of regret and leave it behind me, take it off of my neck and leave it behind me… human frailty and not judging it is not just you judging others, but also yourself.”
  • The comfortable outsider advantage: Being comfortable with your outsider status while still being able to operate in elite circles provides authentic confidence and relatability across all social levels. “I am a comfortable outsider. I’m not an insider… but I’m comfortable with it. You know, like guys like Trump or Rudy, they’re uncomfortable. Outsiders… But I’m a comfortable outsider. I don’t need to do that.”
  • Intellectual curiosity + neuroplasticity: Combining genuine curiosity about others with the ability to adapt and change allows you to move successfully between different social and professional circles. “Find your superpower… I think your superpower is very similar to my superpower… intellectual curiosity. And so if you can blend intellectual curiosity with neuroplasticity, meaning you can adopt and change… then you can move in various circles.”
  • Pivot for survival: Successful businesses and careers require constant reinvention. SkyBridge’s conference business and pivot to Bitcoin were survival strategies that became major successes. “We were going outta business… This was an accidental survivor strategy. This was a pivot that we were making in order to stay in business. This was not some mastermind plan.”
  • #1 thing is the bone-crushing defeat that comes from football and playing quarterback.
  • Therapy = regression. Life coaching = progression.
  • “I’m impressed you did your homework.”
  • Find your superpower. We share the same superpowers. Intellectual curiosity + neuroplasticity. Being willing and able to change your mind.
  • Confidence and charisma. The first fight is with yourself. You have to believe that you can do the big thing. Henry Ford said if you think you can or you think you can’t, you’re right.
  • You can’t sit still. Wolfgang Puck blows up his restaurant every 10 years and starts over. Move. Do stuff.
  • Life Coach – At his wife’s insistence, Scaramucci began working with a life coach to improve their communication and rebuild their partnership.
  • His dad was abusive. “My brother became a drug addict. I became a workaholic.”
  • Hosting Events: By 2008, the firm was struggling amid the financial crisis. That’s when Scaramucci made a bold bet: launching the SkyBridge Alternatives (SALT) Conference, a high-profile gathering of top hedge fund managers, Wall Street power players, and global investors.
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